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ARE YOU WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE? (Part 5)

ARE YOU WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE? (Part 5)

by | Jun 30, 2019 | Blog, Transformative Coaching

“ Are You Where You Part 5

manifesting your dreams

Part 1 gave you a few ideas about where to begin your journey from where you are to where you want to be—meditation, setting your intention, clearing out limiting beliefs and blocks, and discovering your life purpose.

In Part 2, you learned that you need to communicate your vision or dream and were given SMART goals to clarify what you need to say by writing them in your journal. You now need to move your idea into the world of relationships.

Part 3 asks you to write down all the things you love about your dream, as well as questions to ask yourself to bring it to fruition successfully. When you create something beautiful, it will attract love.

Part 4 is where the rubber meets the road, so continue to visualize, sit in meditation, and ask for guidance. Here is where you must claim your personal power and use it for a higher purpose. You do this by strengthening your will by following through with what is necessary to move you closer to your dream.

In Part 5, your enthusiasm takes over as you begin to see the results of putting your plan into action, and your passion ignites a fire underneath you that fuels the momentum you need to continue. At this point in the “manifesting your dreams” process, an essential step to truly live the life you want is to take pleasure in everything you’ve done so far.

Going With the Flow in Manifesting Your Dreams

You know, when there’s enthusiasm in a room, it’s contagious. The same is true for your passion—it also ignites others. This is where you have fun and take pleasure in the process. Go With the Flow Sticking with your tasks and projects from the SMART goals you set, you’ve noticed you’ve begun to move, and you see results. And when movement happens, things seem to flow with ease.

But this doesn’t mean sitting back and watching. You want to create a big splash as you swim downstream, so you must get up early and do what needs to be done on your list. Now is not the time to lay back—when there’s momentum going, it’s the time to push. Ask for what you want, and you will attract what you need to make your dream come true. Find a way to make your daily actions fun and pleasurable so you can fuel your passion to the end. You are almost to your destination.

Being, Doing, Having – The Final Steps in Manifesting Your Dreams

Here’s where you’ve gone from being (who you have to be to create your dream) to doing (what you have to do to make it come true) to having (you have your vision in the physical world). To have your dream become a reality requires two commitments. One, you complete each step of the process in body, heart, and mind;  two, you allow the time to achieve your SMART goals, which are both time-based and measurable.

By being the person you need to be and doing the things you need to do, you will have what you want and desire in life. When you complete all the steps, you have brought your vision into physical form, whether it’s a finished book, a new business, or a new home. Your manifestation is complete.

For a deeper understanding on manifesting your dreams with purpose, contact me.

Many of the ideas and steps in this 5-part series, Are You Where You Want to Be in Life?, are drawn from Anodea Judith’s Creating on Purpose: The Spiritual Technology of Manifesting Through the Chakras.

For more information on manifesting your dreams, check out my article Are Your Healing and Manifesting in my article for Brainz Magazine. 

ARE YOU WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE (PART 4)

ARE YOU WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE (PART 4)

by | Jun 9, 2019 | Blog, Transformative Coaching

Are You Where You Part 4

SELF IMPROVEMENT STRATEGIES

Part 1 gave you a few ideas about where to begin your journey from where you are to where you want to be—meditation, setting your intention, clearing out limiting beliefs and blocks, and discovering your life purpose.

In Part 2, you learned that you need to communicate your vision or dream and were given SMART goals to clarify what you need to say by writing them in your journal. You now need to move your idea into the world of relationships.

Part 3 asks you to write down all the things you love about your dream, as well as questions to ask yourself to bring it to fruition successfully. When you create something beautiful, it will attract love.

Now, in Part 4, it’s time to put everything into motion. This is where the rubber meets the road—where you strengthen your will, overcome obstacles, and apply self improvement strategies to take decisive action toward your dream.

Why Self Improvement Strategies Matter

To master the manifestation process, you must take charge of your reality and apply self improvement strategies that help you move forward.

  • Don’t wait for the perfect moment—it will never come.
  • If you miss the mark, adjust and try again.
  • Obstacles will arise, but each challenge is an opportunity to strengthen your will.

Self improvement strategies allow you to take action now rather than waiting for the right conditions. They empower you to build resilience, discipline, and the confidence needed to keep moving forward despite difficulties.

Measure Your Personal Power

In your journal, rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10 in the following:

  • I control and focus my attention.
  • I manage my physical energy during the day.
  • I manage my money, finances, and resources.
  • I keep my word to myself and commit to my daily discipline.
  • I keep my word to others and say when I can’t.
  • I can manage my thoughts, beliefs, and reactions.
  • I am organized in my work and accomplish my goals.

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Choose the area where your personal power is the weakest and dedicate a certain amount of time to strengthening it—a week, a month, whatever you decide. For instance, if you can’t manage your finances, talk to a financial expert.

Using self improvement strategies to address weaknesses will help you develop self-discipline and take charge of your progress.

The Willpower to Follow Through

To manifest your dream, you need willpower and commitment.

🔥 Willpower is the fuel that drives self improvement strategies.
🔥 To increase your energy, practice breathwork, movement (dance, exercise), or rest.
🔥 Balance is key—too much force can burn out your motivation.

Self improvement strategies help you channel your energy effectively, ensuring that:

  • Your intention (what you want) is clear.
  • Your energy (the drive to take action) is strong.
  • Your willpower (the force that moves you forward) is unshakable.

🔹 Intention ↓ goes down ↓
🔹 Energy ↑ goes up ↑
🔹 They meet—WILL.

When you strengthen your willpower, taking action on your SMART goals becomes easier.

Taking Charge: Just Do It!

Nike said it best: “Just Do It.”

  • If you hit obstacles, keep moving forward—no matter what.
  • Remind yourself of your intention and the “why” behind your dream.
  • Address challenges as they come—don’t let them build up.

🔹 Ask for help, seek feedback, and adapt when needed.
🔹 Push past fear—your desire, energy, and effort will carry you through.
🔹 Be willing to give everything to your dream—because it’s what you truly want.

What’s Next? Bringing It All Together

In Part 5, we’ll tie everything together into a final roadmap for creating the life you truly want.

🚀 Ready to dive deeper into self improvement strategies? Schedule a complimentary 15-Minute Virtual Coffee today!

ARE YOU WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE (PART 3)

ARE YOU WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE (PART 3)

by | May 28, 2019 | Blog, Transformative Coaching

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building meaningful connections

Part 1 gave you a few ideas about where to begin your journey from where you are to where you want to be; meditation, setting your intention, clearing out limiting beliefs and blocks, and discovering your life purpose. In Part 2, you learned that you need to communicate your vision or dream and were given SMART goals to clarify what you need to say by writing them in your journal. You now need to move your plan into the world of relationships and building meaningful connections.

What Do You Love About Your Dream?

When you are passionate about your dream, you are opening your heart to all that is possible. Since the heart is the link between energy and matter and the mind and body, it is the foundation for unifying these opposing sides. It connects your energy (spirit) and matter, as well as your mind and body, enhancing their relationships.

As with anything in life, your dreams, visions, or goals will incur challenges and hurdles to overcome, making it vital for you to remember what you love about your dream.

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Write down all the things you love about your dream. 

Ensure they are in alignment with your core values, inspire you, and elevate your heart. Use the list to reaffirm your passion when you encounter hardships along the way.

The Role of Service in Building Meaningful Connections

An important element for obtaining your dream that it benefits not only yourself but includes others. In what ways does it serve other people? Are you helping, being of service—or is your vision all about you and what you want? This is the heart of relationships—emphasizing your service to others.

As a result of service to others, new relationships will be created that will help you attain your dream. You’ve communicated your needs, received support for them, and now the right connections will be formed. When you live in heart consciousness, the network of friends, family, co-workers, and others you’ve established will help you find the right relationships necessary for the manifestation of your dream.

Key Questions for Building Meaningful Connections

  • Who do I know? Who do I want to know?
  • How can I connect with more people? How can I make deeper connections?
  • Who knows me? Who should know me?
  • Who are my ideal clients or customers? What are their needs, wants, and desires?
  • Who would benefit from being connected to my dreams? How would my goal serve them?

By asking these questions, you become intentional about building meaningful connections with the right people—those who can support, inspire, and uplift you on your journey.

Is what you are creating filled with beauty and love?

Beauty opens our hearts to love and connects heaven and earth, just as it is between mind and body. The act of creating something of beauty is a way of bringing good into the world. Infused with optimism, it says simply: Life is worthwhile. The effort to create enduring beauty is not dependent on style but truth.  Beauty is resilient; it is life-affirming, it gives back to create more life.

Take time to add beauty to your creation—it will attract love—and what is truly loved becomes beautiful and is eternal.

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What’s Next? Strengthening Your Personal Will

Now that you’ve explored building meaningful connections, the next step is strengthening your personal will and creating a map to success.

In Part 4, you’ll learn how to overcome challenges and obstacles, develop resilience, and stay committed to your dream.

To learn more details in creating your dream on purpose, contact  me for a complimentary 15-Minute Virtual Coffee.

ARE YOU WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE? (Part 2)

ARE YOU WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE? (Part 2)

by | May 13, 2019 | Blog, Transformative Coaching

Are you where you want to be in life Part 2

Communicating Your Vision

Part 1 gave you a few ideas about where to begin your journey from where you are to where you want to be. After you have meditated, set your intention, cleared out any limiting beliefs (if you’re not sure how to, I can help), and discovered your life purpose, you now need to communicate it to others.

Why Communicating Your Vision Matters

The words you choose when communicating your vision are vital to make it materialize. When you tell your story to others with enthusiasm, it may inspire them to help you achieve your dream by offering support or advice. Doing this gives you the necessary feedback to hone your vision to clarify what you want precisely.

How to Effectively Communicate Your Vision

Use your journal to explore these key questions:

  • What do you most want others to know about your vision, and why?
  • How do you want people to feel after hearing about your dream?
  • What fears do you have about sharing your vision? What’s the best feedback you could receive?
  • Do you want others to help you? If so, how will you ask them?

By gaining clarity on your answers, you’ll communicate your vision more confidently and attract the right people who can support your journey.

Setting SMART Goals to Bring Your Vision to Life

Once your vision is clear, it’s time to turn it into actionable steps. SMART goals help transform dreams into tangible results:

✔ S—SPECIFIC: Clearly define what you want to accomplish. Why is it important? What actions will you take? Who needs to be involved?

✔ M—MEASURABLE: How will you track progress? What specific milestones will indicate success?

✔ A—ATTAINABLE: Is your goal achievable with your current resources, skills, or support system?

✔ R—REALISTIC: Does your vision align with your values and long-term goals?

✔ T—TIME-BOUND: What’s your deadline? Setting a timeframe ensures accountability.

Now, write down five essential goals that will move your vision forward. Phrase them as commitments, such as:
“I will do whatever it takes to [achieve my dream].”

Then, organize them in priority order—some steps may need to be completed before others can begin.

Bringing Your Vision into Reality

Once you have your plan, the final step in communicating your vision is talking about it consistently. Speaking about your dreams keeps them in focus and invites opportunities for collaboration and support.

Where attention goes, energy flows.

By sharing your aspirations with the right people, you create momentum and increase the likelihood of turning your vision into reality.

💡 Remember: If you don’t ask, the answer is always NO. Be bold—express your vision, invite help, and keep moving forward.

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What’s Next?

With your goals set and your vision shared, you’re ready for action! In Part 3, we’ll dive into the next steps needed to make your dreams come to life.

💬 Let’s connect on Facebook—I share insights, inspiration, and upcoming events to support you on your journey!

ARE YOU WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE? (Part 1)

ARE YOU WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE? (Part 1)

by | May 6, 2019 | Blog, Transformative Coaching

Discovering Your Purpose in Life

DISCOVERING YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE

Have you ever woken up feeling like you’re simply going through the motions—existing rather than truly living? I have. I realized that instead of directing my life where I wanted it to go, I was being dragged along without intention.

What did I do?

First, I acknowledged that I needed help—with accountability, taking the right first steps, and goal-setting. It felt like starting AA all over again. In many ways, I was. The 12-Steps of AA held me accountable, provided a structured path, and helped me reach the goals I set for myself.

Simple, but not easy. Just like life.

To begin discovering your purpose in life, here are a few essential actions you can take to shift from being pulled along at the back of the train (the caboose) to stepping into your power as the engine that drives your own life.

The First Step to Discovering Your Purpose in Life: Quiet Your Mind

The most critical first action is quieting your mind. Whether through meditation, a walk in nature, or simply sitting in stillness, this practice is essential. It allows you to open your consciousness, be present, and connect with your higher purpose.

Try this:
🧘 Reflect on one question each morning, such as, “What is important for me to notice today?”

🌟 Set a daily intention that focuses on where you want to be in life. Soon, you’ll notice your reality shifting to align with your vision.

Clearing Limiting Beliefs

As you move forward in discovering your purpose in life, take time to examine and clear limiting beliefs that hold you back. There are many ways to do this, but one effective method is The BeliefCloset Process (which I’ll explore in a future post).

Once you eliminate beliefs that no longer serve you, you create space for new possibilities and greater alignment with your true calling.

How to Discover Your Purpose in Life

Discovering your purpose in life is a deeply personal journey, but these steps can help:

✔ Ask Yourself: “What do I love to do?” – Your purpose should feel natural and energizing, like flowing downstream, not struggling like a salmon swimming upstream.

✔ Look to Your Past: Identify moments when you felt most alive and connected with your higher self. What experiences brought you joy and fulfillment?

✔ Recognize Patterns: Analyze these meaningful moments and look for common qualities that define your true passions.

✔ Find Your Purpose Category: Does your passion involve teaching, supporting others, leading, creating, working with nature, or something else? Identifying your purpose’s theme can provide clarity.

✔ Create a Vision: Write down your ideal life or use a vision board to visualize what truly resonates with you.

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What’s Next? Communicating Your Vision

Once you’ve taken the first steps in discovering your purpose in life, the next phase is communicating your vision to bring it to life. We’ll explore that in Part 2 of this series.

💡 “LIFE PURPOSE: Your purpose is not what you do to bring home a paycheck. Your purpose is what you were put on this earth to do with such intensity and passion that it becomes a SPIRITUAL CALLING.”~ The Spiritual Compass

For more guidance on discovering your purpose in life, please schedule a 15-minute virtual coffee to chat.