Episode 3—Into The Abyss

Episode 3—Into The Abyss

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Episode 3—Into the Abyss

In Episode 3 of From the Shadow to the Light, we venture deep Into the Abyss, exploring the dark terrain of trauma, addiction, and the relentless search for solace. Through moments of despair and self-destruction, we uncover how adversity shapes our identities and the hidden glimmers of light that offer hope for renewal. Join me as we confront the shadows, navigate the depths of pain, and seek the resilience that carries us forward.

Show Notes

Episode Title: Into the Abyss
Episode Number: 3

Welcome to Episode 3 of From the Shadow to the Light, where we dive into Chapter 3 of my memoir, Struck by Lightning: My Journey from the Shadow to the Light.

In this episode, we explore the depths of trauma and self-destruction—the moments of escapism, recklessness, and numbing that come with overwhelming pain. Through personal reflections, I share my journey through addiction, the impact of trauma, and the desperate attempts to find validation in all the wrong places.

As we navigate this abyss, we also acknowledge the small glimmers of light that flicker in the darkness—moments of self-expression, creativity, and resilience that begin to carve the way toward healing. This episode is for those who have ever felt lost in their pain, seeking a way to emerge from the shadows into something greater.

Reflective Questions

Theme 1—Exploring and Experienting

  1. Have you ever sought validation or acceptance through external means, such as substances or risky behaviors? How did this impact your sense of self-worth?
  2. Reflecting on my journey of exploration and experimentation, what insights or lessons can you apply to your own life when facing challenges or seeking belonging?

Additional Questions:

  1. In what ways did your early experiences with exploration shape your understanding of yourself and the world around you?
  2. Can you recall a specific moment of discovery or self-realization that emerged from your own journey of exploration?
  3. How do you view the balance between curiosity and caution when exploring new experiences or opportunities?

Theme 2—The Shadows of Escapism and Self-Destruction

  1. Can you identify moments when you felt overwhelmed by the desire to escape reality or avoid facing difficult emotions?
  2. Have you ever felt trapped in the shadow of your own escapism, unable to see the light beyond? How did you navigate through this darkness.

Additional Questions:

  1. Reflecting on times you may have engaged in self-destructive behaviors, what underlying emotions or triggers led to these actions?
  2. Have you ever been trapped in a cycle of negative thought patterns or behaviors that seemed difficult to break free from? How did you eventually overcome these challenges?
  3. Looking back, do you see any patterns with how you coped with stress or difficult emotions? How have these coping mechanisms evolved over time?

Theme 3—Trauma and Its Aftermath

  1. Can you recall a time when you experienced a traumatic event that left you feeling shattered and vulnerable? How did you navigate the aftermath of that trauma?
  2. In what ways did you cope with feelings of shame, self-blame, or guilt following a traumatic experience? How did these emotions impact your ability to heal and move forward?

Theme 4—Navigating Creativity Through Adversity

  1. Have you ever experienced moments of light or hope during challenging times? Where did you find them, and how did they impact your journey?
  2. How did you navigate the tension between seeking moments of light and grappling with adversity in your own life?

Theme 5—Forging Through the Shadows

  1. Have you ever faced a period of darkness or adversity? How did you navigate through it?
  2. How do you reconcile the search for love and validation with the reality of toxic relationships or harmful behaviors?

Conclusion

As we close Episode 3, let’s recognize that even in the deepest darkness, there is always a flicker of light. Into the Abyss took us through trauma and addiction, revealing the struggles of seeking relief in all the wrong places. The road to healing may be unclear, but every step forward, no matter how small, brings us closer to wholeness. May this episode serve as a reminder that healing begins the moment we choose to rise.

We hope this episode helps you reflect on your journey and uncover meaningful insights. Be sure to click the community link below and look for additional resources to support your transformation. Thank you for listening to From  the Shadow to the Light.

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Episode 2—The Invisible Child

Episode 2—The Invisible Child

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Episode 2—The Invisible Child

In Episode 2 of From the Shadow to the Light, we step into The Invisible Child, exploring the deep emotional impact of childhood loss, grief, and the desperate longing to be seen. Through personal stories, we uncover the masks we wear to survive and the ways in which unresolved wounds shape our lives. Join me as we navigate the shadows of invisibility and move toward healing, self-acceptance, and the power of embracing our authentic selves.

Show Notes

Episode Title: The Invisible Child
Episode Number: 2

Welcome to Episode 2 of From the Shadow to the Light, where we dive into Chapter 2 of my memoir, Struck by Lightning: My Journey from the Shadow to the Light.

In this episode, The Invisible Child, we explore the profound experience of feeling unseen, unheard, and emotionally abandoned as a child. Through my personal journey, we examine the impact of loss and grief and the ways children adapt when they are left without the emotional support they need. From the masks we wear to the pursuit of external validation, we unpack how these early wounds continue to shape our relationships, self-worth, and ability to heal.

Whether you’ve ever felt invisible, struggled to express your emotions, or sought validation from others, this episode offers reflections and insights into embracing our inner child and reclaiming our sense of worth.

Reflective Questions

Theme 1—Grief and Repressed Memories

  1. Have you ever experienced a significant loss in your life? How did you process it, and what emotions did you suppress?
  2. Have you ever been triggered by something seemingly unrelated, only to realize it was connected to an unhealed wound?

Theme 2: Invisibility and the Masks We Wear

  1. Have there been times in your life when you felt invisible or unheard? How did you cope with that feeling?
  2. Do you recognize any of the masks discussed in this episode? Which ones have you worn, and why?

Theme 3: The Longing to Be Seen and Success Strategies

  1. Have you ever sought external validation to prove your worth? How did it impact your self-esteem?
  2. How can you begin shifting from seeking recognition from others to cultivating self-worth from within?

Theme 4: Humiliation and Self-Esteem

  1. Recall a time when you experienced public humiliation or failure. How did it affect your self-esteem, and how did you respond?
  2. Have you ever tied your self-worth to perfection or achievement? How has that shaped your sense of identity?

Theme 5: Embracing the Wounded Child’s Impact

  1. Reflect on the ways in which the presence of the Wounded Child has influenced your journey. How have its shadows shaped your perceptions of self and others?
  2. Consider the masks you wear and the strategies you employ to cope with unmet needs and unexpressed emotions. Are these mechanisms serving as temporary Band-Aids or pathways to deeper healing?
  3. How can you begin to cultivate a greater sense of self-validation and acceptance, recognizing that true healing begins from within?

Conclusion

As we close Episode 2, we acknowledge the wounds left by feeling unseen and unheard. The Invisible Child reminded us that while invisibility may shape our past, it does not have to define our future. Even in our silence, we are worthy of being acknowledged and understood. May this episode serve as a reminder that we all deserve to be seen, valued, and heard.

We hope this episode helps you reflect on your journey and uncover meaningful insights. Be sure to click the community link below and look for additional resources to support your transformation. Thank you for listening to From  the Shadow to the Light.

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One Simple Step to Stop Reacting

One Simple Step to Stop Reacting

One Simple Step to Stop Reacting

One Simple Stop to Stop Reacting

There was a time when I couldn’t *not* react.
One sideways look, one offhand comment, and I’d spiral—into defensiveness, silence, rage, or shame.
I didn’t understand why things affected me so deeply. I just knew I felt out of control, ashamed, and exhausted.

But what I didn’t know then is that those moments… those *triggers*… weren’t signs I was broken.
They were *invitations*—whispers from my shadow saying, “It’s time.”

Everything changed the day I stopped reacting long enough to pause.

“You can’t heal what you can’t name. And every pause is a sacred act of self-love.”

You've Got to Name it to Claim it

Before I got sober, I lived in a constant state of emotional reactivity.
I didn’t know what regulation felt like. I only knew the storm—the sudden heat of shame, the collapse into silence, the need to defend, escape, or disappear.

When I finally admitted I was being triggered—that something old was rising up in me—I began to heal.

Here’s the truth I had to learn the hard way:
💡 You can’t heal what you can’t name.

Most people don’t realize when they’re triggered.
They think the problem is the person in front of them.
But healing starts when you shift your attention inward and ask:

  • What am I feeling right now?

  • Where have I felt this before?

  • What part of me is being activated?

This is how we name it.
This is how we reclaim it.

The Power of the Pause

Let me tell you what happens when you pause instead of reacting:
You interrupt the cycle.
You give yourself a moment of grace.

Even if it’s just one deep breath—just five seconds of noticing what’s happening—you’ve stepped off the hamster wheel of unconscious survival patterns and stepped into conscious choice.

You don’t have to suppress the feeling.
You don’t have to fix it.
You just have to feel it… and let it pass through.

And that pause?
That’s where the sacred lives.

Don't React. Reconnect.

Pausing isn’t about pretending you’re not upset.
It’s about reconnecting to yourself before you abandon her.

When I was deep in my addict archetype, I thought the only way to feel better was to escape the feeling altogether. But now I know my emotions weren’t trying to destroy me—they were trying to lead me home.

When we pause, we make space for the invisible child inside us to whisper what she needs.
And we can finally listen.

So the next time something lights a fire in you, try saying:

“I’m noticing that I’m triggered. And that’s okay. I choose to pause. I choose to be here with myself.”

That’s the work.
That’s the healing.

Coming soon...

In the next few weeks, I’ll be sharing something special—a calming tool you can use in just 15 minutes to shift from reactivity to clarity. It’s helped me and my clients soften some of life’s most overwhelming moments.

But you don’t need that tool to begin.

All you need right now is this:
Notice. Pause. Name it.

Because that one simple step?
It changes everything.

Want more tools like this? Stay tuned or book a complimentary Discovery Call to explore your healing path.

Archetypes: How to Identify Them in Yourself and Others

Archetypes: How to Identify Them in Yourself and Others

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Archetypes: How to Identify Them in Yourself and Others

Archetypes are universal patterns of behavior and psychological imprints that shape our personalities, choices, and interactions. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in the same destructive relationship dynamic, constantly drawn to certain types of people, or repeating the same patterns in life, you’re likely experiencing the power of archetypes in action.

Caroline Myss, a world-renowned teacher on archetypes and the author of Sacred Contracts, explains that we all embody a set of core archetypes, and our life journey is about recognizing them, working with their light and shadow sides, and ultimately evolving through them.

One archetype that is especially relevant today—both in personal relationships and on the world stage—is The Bully.

The Bully Archetype: Power Through Intimidation

The Bully is one of the most recognizable shadow archetypes because its energy is aggressive, domineering, and often fueled by insecurity. Myss describes the Bully as someone who gains power by controlling, shaming, or intimidating others. But there’s more to this archetype than just physical or verbal aggression—it also operates through psychological and emotional manipulation.

How to Recognize The Bully in Others

The Bully can appear in many forms, from the obvious schoolyard tormentor to the corporate tyrant, the toxic family member, or even political leaders who exploit fear and division. Here are some common signs of the Bully archetype in its shadow form:

  • Uses fear, humiliation, or control to dominate others
  • Seeks to maintain power by making others feel small or unworthy
  • Thrives on creating chaos, blame, and division
  • Struggles with insecurity masked as arrogance
  • Resists accountability and deflects responsibility onto others
  • Gains followers by preying on people’s weaknesses, doubts, or fears

Sound familiar? The Bully archetype is one of the most visible and destructive forces in leadership when left unchecked. We are currently seeing this dynamic play out in the White House, where fear, division, and intimidation are used as political tools rather than true leadership qualities.

How to Recognize The Bully in Yourself

It’s easy to spot the Bully in others, but self-reflection is key. We all have the capacity to fall into shadow behavior, especially when we feel threatened or powerless. The Bully can appear in our personal lives in subtle ways:

  • Do you find yourself using sarcasm, criticism, or passive-aggression to assert control?
  • Have you ever belittled someone to make yourself feel more powerful?
  • Do you use anger or emotional withdrawal as a way to manipulate situations?
  • Do you resist feedback because you feel attacked rather than supported?

Recognizing this within yourself isn’t about shame—it’s about growth. The Bully, like all archetypes, has a light side too. When transformed, it becomes The Protector—someone who uses strength, courage, and assertiveness to defend the vulnerable, advocate for justice, and stand up for what is right.

Transforming The Bully into The Protector

If you recognize the Bully in yourself or someone close to you, here are ways to shift its energy into a positive force:

  1. Cultivate Self-Awareness – Pay attention to your triggers. When do you lash out? What makes you feel the need to dominate or control?
  2. Own Your Wounds – The Bully archetype often stems from deep insecurity. Healing past wounds can help you move beyond the need for power struggles.
  3. Use Strength for Good – Being powerful isn’t bad—using it destructively is. Channel your assertiveness into protecting others rather than tearing them down.
  4. Speak Up – If you see bullying behavior in others, challenge it. Silence enables the shadow side of this archetype to thrive.
  5. Empower Instead of Intimidate – True leadership uplifts rather than oppresses. Shift from controlling others to inspiring them.

Archetypes as a Mirror

The Bully, like all archetypes, serves as a mirror. If we see it clearly in others, it is our responsibility to recognize how it affects our own lives. Whether we embody it, enable it, or stand against it, this archetype offers an opportunity for profound self-awareness and transformation.

In today’s world, where the Bully archetype is on full display in politics, leadership, and social dynamics, the question remains: Do we accept this as the norm, or do we demand something greater?


If you’re curious about how archetypes shape your life and relationships, I invite you to explore them deeper. Understanding your core archetypes can unlock powerful insights into your patterns, strengths, and challenges.

Want to dive deeper into your archetypes?

Book a complimentary Discovery call with me to start uncovering the hidden forces that influence your life.

Download the PDF “Questions to Identify Your Archetypes,” here.

The Wounded Child: Healing the Pain That Still Echoes

The Wounded Child: Healing the Pain That Still Echoes

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The Wounded Child: Healing the Pain That Still Echoes

Healing your wounded inner child is a powerful journey of self-awareness and emotional growth. If you’re ready to dive deeper into this work, Transformative Coaching can provide the tools and guidance to help you release past pain and step into a more empowered, authentic self.

Throughout our lives, we carry echoes of our past, some more painful than others. The Wounded Child archetype is one of the most powerful influences on our self-worth, relationships, and how we navigate the world. It holds the scars of our childhood experiences—betrayal, abandonment, unworthiness, and unresolved pain. But healing the Wounded Child is possible, and in doing so, we reclaim the light that has always been within us.

Recognizing the Wounded Child Within

The Wounded Child can manifest in many ways. You might find yourself easily triggered, hypersensitive to criticism, or overwhelmed by feelings of unworthiness. Before I got sober, I took everything personally. If someone looked at me the wrong way, I would cry. I had no self-esteem, and even well-intentioned feedback shattered me. Every negative comment was a direct attack, reinforcing my deeply rooted belief that I was not enough.

This wound didn’t just appear—my experiences shaped it. Growing up, I witnessed deceit within my family, mainly from my father. That betrayal left a deep mark, making it difficult to trust others. The Wounded Child in me longed for safety and validation but often sought it in the wrong places—through people-pleasing, perfectionism, or numbing my pain through addiction.

A Defining Moment: Seeing the Masks Fall Away

One of the most profound moments in my healing journey happened during a psychodrama session in rehab. Earlier that day, during meditation, I saw faces wearing masks—comedy and tragedy—slowly melting away, revealing their true essence.

Two hours later, that vision came to life. A woman played me as a little girl, and I symbolically taped tissues to her face, each representing the masks I wore to survive: the Caretaker, the People Pleaser, the Good Girl, the Smart One. One by one, I removed them, revealing what lay beneath.

At that moment, an electric charge ran through me. The therapist, unaware of my vision, told me I had just experienced a true spiritual awakening. I knew I would never wear another mask again because I, and God, knew the truth—and that was all that mattered. The Wounded Child in me had been seen, acknowledged, and, most importantly, freed.

The Path to Healing the Wounded Child

Healing does not happen overnight. It requires courage, awareness, and deep inner work. Here are some of the steps that helped me, and they may help you too:

1. Rescuing and Reparenting the Inner Child

Rescuing the Inner Child is one of the most powerful modalities I use in my coaching. This process helps reconnect with the wounded parts of ourselves that were abandoned, shamed, or unheard. Through visualization and deep emotional work, we can retrieve the lost child within us and offer them the love and support they never received.

Reparenting is an essential part of this process. Your Wounded Child needs what it never received—love, validation, and safety. One of my most healing exercises was speaking to my younger self with compassion. I would close my eyes, picture her, and tell her, “I see you. You are loved. You are enough.” Reparenting means giving yourself what you always needed: kindness, protection, or understanding.

I have used this process to bring my younger self the safety and validation she longed for, and it has been truly transformative. By rescuing and reparenting the Inner Child, we heal the wounds that have shaped our lives and move forward with newfound strength and self-acceptance.

2. Identifying and Releasing Limiting Beliefs

The beliefs we formed as children often shape our reality as adults. Through belief-clearing techniques, I uncovered deeply ingrained thoughts such as, “I am not worthy” or “I will always be abandoned.” I began to transform when I challenged these beliefs and replaced them with truths that aligned with my healing.

3. Learning to Let Go and Trust

One of the hardest yet most freeing lessons was learning to surrender. My true moment of surrender came after I passed out and left my dogs alone all day and night. That was my rock bottom—the moment I saw clearly that I had lost control. But that moment was also a gift. It was an invitation to let go of my Wounded Child’s need to control everything and instead trust that healing was possible.

Reflection: A Journey Back to Wholeness

Healing the Wounded Child is not about erasing the past but embracing it with love and understanding. Looking back, I see the strength in that little girl who endured so much. She was never broken—just waiting to be held, acknowledged, and loved unconditionally.

Take a moment to reflect:

  • Where does your Wounded Child still show up in your life?
  • How does it shape your relationships, your fears, and your self-worth?
  • What would happen if you spoke to your inner child today, not with judgment, but with love?

Healing begins with awareness, deepens with self-compassion, and transforms with surrender. The journey is not easy, but I promise—it is worth it. Because on the other side of pain is freedom, and within you is a light waiting to shine all along.

Healing your wounded inner child is not a journey you have to take alone. If you’re seeking deeper self-discovery and emotional transformation, Transformative Coaching can help you reconnect with your true self and move forward with confidence and clarity.

Are you ready to take the first step toward healing your Wounded Child? If this resonates with you, let’s connect. Book a complimentary Discovery Call and begin your journey toward healing and transformation today.

 

Raising Your Vibration During Uncertain Times

Raising Your Vibration During Uncertain Times

Raising Your Vibration

Raising Your Vibration During Uncertain Times

Everything in the universe is energy, including your thoughts, emotions, and experiences. When you focus on raising your vibration, you elevate your energy frequency, allowing you to attract more positivity, peace, and joy into your life. If you’re seeking deeper self-growth, Transformative Coaching can help you clear emotional blocks and shift into a higher state of being.

In times of political chaos and uncertainty, when the news is filled with decisions that strip away democracy or threaten the things we value, it’s natural to feel fear, anxiety, or anger. But while we can’t control the external world, we have power over how we respond.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, I want you to know you’re not alone and don’t have to stay stuck in this energy. Today, I’ll share practical steps to help you protect your energy, shift away from fear, and raise your vibration.


What Does Raising Your Vibration Mean?

Your vibration is the frequency at which you operate emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Low vibrations are associated with fear, anger, and negativity, while high vibrations align with love, joy, and peace. The good news? You have the power to shift your energy by intentionally practicing habits that support raising your vibration every day.


Signs of Low Vibration vs. High Vibration

💔 Low Vibration Signs:

  • Feeling stuck, drained, or overwhelmed
  • Experiencing frequent negative emotions like fear, frustration, or sadness
  • Engaging in self-doubt or self-criticism
  • Being surrounded by toxic relationships or environments

💖 High Vibration Signs:

  • Feeling light, joyful, and inspired
  • Having deep gratitude and appreciation for life
  • Experiencing synchronicities and a sense of flow
  • Attracting positive relationships and opportunities

The key to raising your vibration is to bring more awareness to your thoughts, emotions, and habits—choosing to shift toward positivity whenever possible.


5 Powerful Ways to Start Raising Your Vibration

If you’re ready to raise your frequency and align with higher energy, here are five simple but powerful practices:

1. Set Boundaries with the News

The 24-hour news cycle is designed to keep us hooked, often leaving us feeling drained, angry, or helpless. But here’s the truth: you don’t need constant updates to stay informed.

Instead, choose when and how to consume news in a way that protects your peace. Set specific times to check updates, and then shift your focus to more productive and positive things.

Here’s what works for me:
I limit my news intake to 15 minutes in the morning and avoid checking it before bed. This small change alone has helped me feel more grounded and present in my daily life.

Reflect on this: Could you limit your news intake and notice how it affects your mental and emotional state?

2. Create a Grounding Routine

When the world feels chaotic, creating a personal routine that grounds you in the present moment is crucial. Grounding practices help you stay connected to what’s real—your breath, your body, and your inner calm.

You might try:

I find zen coloring to be magical. As I focus on each stroke of color, I feel my mind calm, and my vibration lift. Find what works for you, whether it’s a morning meditation or an evening journaling session.

Try this: Take 5 minutes today to breathe deeply, close your eyes, and ground yourself in the present moment.

3. Surround Yourself with Supportive, Like-Minded People

In difficult times, surrounding yourself with negativity can quickly pull you down. That’s why being intentional about who you spend time with is essential. Seek out people who lift you up and remind you of the bigger picture.

Join supportive communities, connect with friends who inspire you, and avoid conversations that leave you feeling depleted. There’s power in sharing hope; like-minded people can help you remember that you’re not facing this alone.

Whenever I feel overwhelmed, a conversation with someone who shares my vision instantly shifts my mood. They remind me to focus on what I can control and let go of the rest.

Could you reach out to someone today who brings light into your life?

4. Refocus on Your Vision and Goals

Fear thrives in uncertainty. But when you’re anchored in your vision, fear loses its grip. No matter what’s happening around you, your goals remind you that you have something meaningful to work toward.

What you focus on grows. So, focus on what you want to create instead of what you fear. Break down your goals into small, manageable steps, and celebrate each bit of progress.

This means reminding myself daily of why I do what I do. I visualize my vision and let that carry me through moments of doubt. When everything around you feels uncertain, your purpose will guide you.

What small step toward your vision can you take today?

5. Raise Your Vibration through Gratitude and Joy

Fear and anger can lower your vibration, leaving you in a negative cycle. To break free, turn to the power of gratitude and joy. When you shift your attention to what’s good, you create more of it.

Start with a simple practice:

  • List three things you’re grateful for each morning.
  • Listen to uplifting music.
  • Engage in a hobby that brings you joy—whether it’s dancing, painting, or gardening.

For me, it’s music and gratitude journaling. I write down three things I’m thankful for every morning, and I notice how it changes my perspective. It’s a small practice, but its impact is enormous.

Today, take a moment to think of something you’re grateful for and let that feeling fill your heart.


Reflect on This:

What is one action you can take right now to shift your energy away from fear and focus on your vision and peace?


It’s okay to feel overwhelmed or frustrated. But you can protect your energy and choose how you respond. Even in the darkest moments, you can ground yourself, raise your vibration, and focus on your inner light.

The world needs your light more than ever. So breathe, ground yourself, and remember—you are not powerless.

The Power of Raising Your Vibration

When you focus on raising your vibration, you align yourself with higher energy, allowing more peace, joy, and abundance to flow into your life.

If you’re ready to take this journey deeper, Transformative Coaching can help you remove blocks, shift your mindset, and fully step into your highest potential.

💡 Now is the perfect time to raise your vibration and step into a more aligned, empowered version of yourself!


For more profound guidance and support, schedule a complimentary Discovery Call.  Let’s keep building resilience together.

Raising Your Vibration

Raising Your Vibration During Uncertain Times

In times of political chaos and uncertainty, when the news is filled with decisions that strip away democracy or threaten the things we value, it’s natural to feel fear, anxiety, or anger. But while we can’t control the external world, we have power over how we respond.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, I want you to know you’re not alone and don’t have to stay stuck in this energy. Today, I’ll share practical steps to help you protect your energy, shift away from fear, and raise your vibration.


1. Set Boundaries with the News

The 24-hour news cycle is designed to keep us hooked, often leaving us feeling drained, angry, or helpless. But here’s the truth: you don’t need constant updates to stay informed.

Instead, choose when and how to consume news in a way that protects your peace. Set specific times to check updates, and then shift your focus to more productive and positive things.

Here’s what works for me:
I limit my news intake to 15 minutes in the morning and avoid checking it before bed. This small change alone has helped me feel more grounded and present in my daily life.

Reflect on this: Could you limit your news intake and notice how it affects your mental and emotional state?


2. Create a Grounding Routine

When the world feels chaotic, creating a personal routine that grounds you in the present moment is crucial. Grounding practices help you stay connected to what’s real—your breath, your body, and your inner calm.

You might try:

I find zen coloring to be magical. As I focus on each stroke of color, I feel my mind calm, and my vibration lift. Find what works for you, whether it’s a morning meditation or an evening journaling session.

Try this: Take 5 minutes today to breathe deeply, close your eyes, and ground yourself in the present moment.


3. Surround Yourself with Supportive, Like-Minded People

In difficult times, surrounding yourself with negativity can quickly pull you down. That’s why being intentional about who you spend time with is essential. Seek out people who lift you up and remind you of the bigger picture.

Join supportive communities, connect with friends who inspire you, and avoid conversations that leave you feeling depleted. There’s power in sharing hope; like-minded people can help you remember that you’re not facing this alone.

Whenever I feel overwhelmed, a conversation with someone who shares my vision instantly shifts my mood. They remind me to focus on what I can control and let go of the rest.

Could you reach out to someone today who brings light into your life?


4. Refocus on Your Vision and Goals

Fear thrives in uncertainty. But when you’re anchored in your vision, fear loses its grip. No matter what’s happening around you, your goals remind you that you have something meaningful to work toward.

What you focus on grows. So, focus on what you want to create instead of what you fear. Break down your goals into small, manageable steps, and celebrate each bit of progress.

This means reminding myself daily of why I do what I do. I visualize my vision and let that carry me through moments of doubt. When everything around you feels uncertain, your purpose will guide you.

What small step toward your vision can you take today?


5. Raise Your Vibration through Gratitude and Joy

Fear and anger can lower your vibration, leaving you in a negative cycle. To break free, turn to the power of gratitude and joy. When you shift your attention to what’s good, you create more of it.

Start with a simple practice:

  • List three things you’re grateful for each morning.
  • Listen to uplifting music.
  • Engage in a hobby that brings you joy—whether it’s dancing, painting, or gardening.

For me, it’s music and gratitude journaling. I write down three things I’m thankful for every morning, and I notice how it changes my perspective. It’s a small practice, but its impact is enormous.

Today, take a moment to think of something you’re grateful for and let that feeling fill your heart.


Reflect on This:

What is one action you can take right now to shift your energy away from fear and focus on your vision and peace?


It’s okay to feel overwhelmed or frustrated. But you can protect your energy and choose how you respond. Even in the darkest moments, you can ground yourself, raise your vibration, and focus on your inner light.

The world needs your light more than ever. So breathe, ground yourself, and remember—you are not powerless.


For more profound guidance and support, schedule a complimentary Discovery Call.  Let’s keep building resilience together.