Embracing Confidence

by | May 16, 2023

I wanted to share something that has been on my mind lately—our journey toward building genuine confidence. It’s a topic that resonates with me deeply, and I thought it might resonate with you as well.

Confidence is an incredible quality that can positively impact every aspect of our lives. It allows us to seize opportunities, overcome challenges, and present ourselves authentically to the world. But it’s not always an easy trait to develop. It often requires us to let go of certain behaviors and mindsets that hold us back.

Today, I wanted to talk to you about three key things I believe we need to give up if we truly want to cultivate confidence.

Firstly, let’s say goodbye to self-doubt and negative self-talk. You know that voice (Inner Critic) in our heads that often tells us we’re not good enough or that we’re destined to fail? It’s time to challenge those thoughts. Let’s consciously replace them with positive affirmations and focus on our strengths and achievements. Surrounding ourselves with positive and supportive people will also play a significant role in nurturing our confidence.

Next, let’s address our fear of failure. It’s a common roadblock for many of us. We tend to avoid taking risks or pursuing our goals because we fear falling short or making mistakes  (Perfectionist). But true confidence requires us to embrace failure as a stepping stone to success. It’s about shifting our perspective and viewing failure as an opportunity to learn and grow. We can develop resilience and foster a confident mindset by taking small steps outside our comfort zones and celebrating every attempt.

Lastly, let’s break free from the need for external validation. Relying too heavily on others’ approval and validation can diminish our self-worth (Victim). Instead, let’s go within and learn to validate ourselves. Recognize and appreciate our unique qualities, strengths, and accomplishments. Embrace self-compassion and treat ourselves with kindness and understanding. Accept that perfection is unrealistic and celebrate our flaws as part of our individuality.

Confidence is a journey, and I believe we’re both on this path together. It’s not about being flawless or never encountering setbacks; it’s about believing in ourselves, embracing challenges, and persisting despite adversity. I would love to help crush those limiting beliefs that cause us to behave and think negatively and prevent us from living the best version of ourselves.

I know it can be done because I’ve done it.

To discover what your limiting beliefs are, use the Belief Self-Diagnosis form here. Then schedule a Roadmap to Your Personal Success and Confidence call to review it with me. It’s that simple.

You’ll be able to let go of what holds you back and step into a future filled with confidence, self-assurance, and personal growth, all while having a peaceful mindset!

I would love to hear your thoughts on this topic and learn about your experiences building confidence.


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Debbie Gill - author and coach

Debbie gill

The heart and soul behind Go Within Spiritual Coaching.